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Compassion Speaks: How Can We Make a Difference?

What have we accomplished in our years of war? How can we make a different world for the children, a world without war?

by Susan McCarthy, RDC

Again, last night, I watched the end of The News Hour, with a memorial to ten more soldiers who have died in Iraq or Afghanistan.  When this happens, I stop whatever I am doing to look at their faces, read their names and anguish over another human being who has died…for what?  What have we accomplished with our many years of war, our billions of dollars spent and the loss of so many lives?

These young men and women, many from small towns across America, have given their lives to stop a terrorist threat that began over ten years ago.  They are some of the over 6500 U.S. service members that have been killed in Iraq and Afghanistan.  Around half of these service members were married, leaving an estimated 3200 military widows across our country.  This says nothing of the children they leave behind or of the 30,000 more troops that were physically wounded or the countless others that return with scars that can’t be seen, like post-traumatic stress syndrome.  And it says absolutely nothing of the many innocent Iraqi and Afghani citizens who lost their lives.

A member of my family returned home from the Vietnam War and now lives with 100% mental disability.  He served as a Green Beret and learned all the skills of jungle-fighting.  He was trained in the words of the Ballad of the Green Berets “to live off nature’s land, to fight in combat hand to hand….to fight by night and day,” and today he continues to re-live those hellish experiences in his every day.

What can we do for our children, the next generation, to make it different?  This is our challenge.

We live in a world that struggles to make changes.  We are learning to be more accepting of people whose skin color, gender, sexual orientations are different.  It is no longer acceptable to smoke in public places. The Mayor of the City of New York is working to fight obesity.  How can we find new ways to respond to violence?

It’s not easy to stop war.  I was part of regular demonstrations in Little Rock to try to keep our country from invading Iraq.  For several months prior to the attack on Baghdad, we protested every Friday in front of one of the Federal Buildings.  But war came anyway.

These days we are challenged to look at the brutality being inflicted on the Syrian people.  Yet how can we respond?  Please, God, not with soldiers, guns and more war! 

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Rosemary Black June 20, 2012 at 04:56 pm
Thank-you for these thoughts and your activism.
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Colleen R. Brathwaite June 12, 2013 at 12:23 pm
I'm glad to see someone else put on paper some of the reaction I have had to being required to pay aRead More fee to park at WestMed. I think the fee is unconscionable! I was even more insulted when I received a tone-deaf response to my complaint about the fee from the head of WestMed. I understand that WestMed ended up paying considerably more for the parking facility than anticipated, but that's no justification for charging clients who have no choice but to park there in order to receive vital services. It's a gross insult to the patients. It's not our fault that WestMed had to cough up more dough. With new WestMed locations being opened every few months, clearly the company is not hurting financially. And, what's most ridiculous, is that they hired a staff of four or five parking attendants to issue tickets and instruct us how to pay for the parking! Why not use their salaries to help defray the facility's cost? You're right that it's pure greed because WestMed could have chosen to recoup the cost more slowly and not charge a fee. When I expressed my displeasure about the fee to my doctor, he posed an interesting question: when the facility's cost is paid off, will WestMed continue to charge for parking? By this time, WestMed has certainly recouped enough of the cost to make a dent in the overall expense. It's time to get rid of the fee and restore some dignity to what used to be a fine organization. In the past I heartily recommended family, friends and many others to WestMed. Now, I've got a very nasty taste in my mouth about WestMed! Shame on you, WestMed!
Clifford Blau June 15, 2013 at 09:48 am
It's not true that parking is required. You could do as I do and walk there (assuming it isRead More actually the White Plains office you are referring to and not Harrison), or take a bus, or a taxi, or have someone drop you off and pick you up. And if you aren't happy with their service, go somewhere else. There are lots of doctors not affiliated with Westmed.
Cathy G June 15, 2013 at 04:41 pm
Clifford, thanks for your two cents! How lucky for you that you can walk to your doctor's office andRead More not have to pay to park!