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Measuring Our Standard of Living

A student challenges the author's thinking about standards of living.


During a writing class early in my college teaching career, a student read aloud his essay fiercely celebrating the United States’ standard of living as highest in the world.  

I remember nothing of his argument, however, because, as the other students were preparing their comments for the author, a young man from a tiny impoverished African nation, quietly beckoned to me.

“In my country,” he whispered, “we don’t think Americans have a high standard of living.”

Startled, I listened as he listed abused children (Joel Steinberg had just been convicted of abusing and murdering little Lisa), hunger, and widespread homelessness among his reasons for this.

“We have no homeless people in my country, he whispered.  “When something happens, another family will take them in.  Even if we have little food, we share it with those who have none. We don’t have fancy cars or big houses, but we don’t measure our standard of living by that. Our standard of living is the people.”

At least thirty years have passed since that day, but when I came across his words in an old notebook the other day, I was right back in that classroom.

Even if his claims for his country were exaggerated, his words take on new resonance for me today, as I continue my journey to live out the Gospel message of Jesus and to work for justice and peace in our society.

The Easter season calls me to have greater hope that renewal is possible, not only in the trees and gardens around me, but also in the human heart, and therefore in our society.  Remembering that student's words calls me to re-examine my own life in light of Jesus' command to "Love one another as I have loved you" and also in light of the very different reality in which billions of people live.  

My student's simple statement – “Our standard of living is the people” – leads me to reflect on my own choices.  Do I think of the effect of each action on other people?  Is the good of all people (“the common good”) at the heart of my choices?

On a larger scale, what are our standards as a nation? In spite of all our freedoms and the many blessings of our American way of life, how can we allow one in five of our children to continue to live in poverty?  Is our current high unemployment an acceptable balance to increased profits? 

Why are these not at the center of our thoughts and of the political candidates' speeches?

That we can change the conditions under which people suffer is clear from the recent report on the Millennium Developments Goals. (If you are not familiar with these Goals agreed to by all the nations of the world in 2000, see http://www.un.org/millenniumgoals/)

A joint report from the World Health Organization and UNICEF in early March states that about 89% of the people on Earth now have access to safe drinking water; half of those who had no safe water in 1990 now have access to it.

Similarly, the World Bank reports that the number of people living in extreme poverty (the equivalent of less than $1.25 a day) has been halved since 1990.  All of this is happening because of focused action on great needs of people, by the international community working with local communities.  (The other half of each group, of course, still needs our assistance).

So, if we – as individuals and as a nation – put our minds and will to focusing on the needs of people, especially the most deprived people, we can make substantial change.

Do I, do we, have the will to make the good of all people the standard by which we measure our greatness?  Can we demand that our elected officials share this standard in their work for us?

What new “Spring Cleaning” of my awareness and actions can I undertake to allow the common good to be my standard, thereby stimulating the renewal of our society this year?

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A Reader April 22, 2012 at 12:01 pm
Thank you for this reminder. A lot of the time, it seems like the "standard of living" in Pelham is for each person to have his/her own iPhone by the end of fifth grade. Then each member of the family sits in front of his/her own electronic device, not talking to each other, not going out and doing things, and certainly not working compassionately to help those who cannot afford food, much less iPhones. Keep up the great work, Sisters!
Sisters of the Divine Compassion April 23, 2012 at 03:07 pm
Thanks, Reader!
Susan McCarthy April 23, 2012 at 03:34 pm
What a wonderful sharing! This is why it is so wonderful to hear from people of other countries and see how other people view the world. Thank you so much!
Lucille coldrick April 23, 2012 at 07:45 pm
Brava, Doretta! A great remembrance from the past, a great reminder for the future and a great motivator for the present. Alleluia! Lucille
Helena Guerin April 23, 2012 at 11:32 pm
It's not often that you can read a short blog that can give you such a quick shift in perspective but this is truly one of them. What does have greater value then ones neighbor, nothing. Thanks Doretta.
Helena
Lara Lynn Lane April 28, 2012 at 09:38 pm
This is a beautiful Easter story. Thanks so much for sharing it with us.
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Colleen R. Brathwaite June 12, 2013 at 12:23 pm
I'm glad to see someone else put on paper some of the reaction I have had to being required to pay aRead More fee to park at WestMed. I think the fee is unconscionable! I was even more insulted when I received a tone-deaf response to my complaint about the fee from the head of WestMed. I understand that WestMed ended up paying considerably more for the parking facility than anticipated, but that's no justification for charging clients who have no choice but to park there in order to receive vital services. It's a gross insult to the patients. It's not our fault that WestMed had to cough up more dough. With new WestMed locations being opened every few months, clearly the company is not hurting financially. And, what's most ridiculous, is that they hired a staff of four or five parking attendants to issue tickets and instruct us how to pay for the parking! Why not use their salaries to help defray the facility's cost? You're right that it's pure greed because WestMed could have chosen to recoup the cost more slowly and not charge a fee. When I expressed my displeasure about the fee to my doctor, he posed an interesting question: when the facility's cost is paid off, will WestMed continue to charge for parking? By this time, WestMed has certainly recouped enough of the cost to make a dent in the overall expense. It's time to get rid of the fee and restore some dignity to what used to be a fine organization. In the past I heartily recommended family, friends and many others to WestMed. Now, I've got a very nasty taste in my mouth about WestMed! Shame on you, WestMed!
Clifford Blau June 15, 2013 at 09:48 am
It's not true that parking is required. You could do as I do and walk there (assuming it isRead More actually the White Plains office you are referring to and not Harrison), or take a bus, or a taxi, or have someone drop you off and pick you up. And if you aren't happy with their service, go somewhere else. There are lots of doctors not affiliated with Westmed.
Cathy G June 15, 2013 at 04:41 pm
Clifford, thanks for your two cents! How lucky for you that you can walk to your doctor's office andRead More not have to pay to park!